BDSM waa soo gaabinta caalamiga ah ee la aqbalay taas oo isku daraysa dhaqamada kale ee galmada waxayna u taagan tahay "adoonsiga, xukunka, sadismka, masochism." Waagii hore, BDSM waxa loo tixgalin jiray qalooc iyo cudur-faafiyaad, laakiin dhawaanahan hab-dhaqannada ku aaddan ayaa isbeddelay.
Sida laga soo xigtay natiijooyinka cusub , xiisaha BDSM aad ayuu ugu badan yahay Finland.
Iyadoo qayb ka ah sahanka, 8 ka qaybgalayaasha ayaa la waydiiyay su'aalo kala duwan oo la xidhiidha BDSM. Waxay sidoo kale ku guuleysteen imtixaan shakhsiyeed. Haddaba, 137% dumarka iyo 37% ragga ayaa ugu yaraan hal mar galmoodka ugu sarreeyay, halka 23% dumarka iyo 25% raggu ay ugu yaraan hal mar galmo ahaan ka talinayeen lammaanahooda. Intaa waxaa dheer, 32% haweenka iyo 38% ragga ayaa sheegay inay xiiseynayaan BDSM.
"Dadku waxay u maleynayaan in tani ay tahay koox aad u wanaagsan, laakiin natiijooyinka ayaa muujinaya xiisaha guud ee xiisaha leh ee lagu muujiyay BDSM," ayuu yiri qoraaga daraasadda Markus Paarnio.
Cilmi-baadhayaashu waxay kaloo ogaadeen in ragga iyo dumarka xiisaynaya BDSM labadaba lagu tilmaami karo "ku-furnaanta waayo-aragnimada cusub" iyo haweenka guud ahaan kuwa "la-qabsi yar". Laakin cilaaqaadyadani "waxa ay ahaayeen kuwo aad u adag sida ugu wanagsan, taasoo keentay in aanay jirin gunaanad dhab ah oo la taaban karo." "Waxay u muuqataa in shakhsiyaadka dadka danaynaya BDSM aanay ka duwanayn kuwa aan ahayn," Paarnio ayaa yidhi.
Waxa kale oo la ogaaday in dhalinyarada iyo dadka aan jinsiga ahayn ay aad u xiiseeyaan BDSM.
Si kastaba ha ahaatee, doorsoomayaal muhiim ah qaarkood laguma tixgalin daraasaddan. Saynis yahanadu ma aysan xisaabtamin waxbarashada jawaab bixiyaasha. "Shaqooyinkii hore waxay tilmaamayaan xaqiiqda ah in xirfadlayaasha BDSM ay guud ahaan ka aqoon badan yihiin kuwa aan xirfadlayaasha ahayn," ayuu yiri Markus Paarnio.
Inkasta oo xogta cusubi jirto, saynisyahannadu waxay weli hayaan wax badan oo ay ka bartaan cilmi-nafsiga BDSM. Marka, tusaale ahaan, daraasadaha mustaqbalka waa inay tixgeliyaan arrinta ku baahsanaanta dalal kala duwan.
Qoraal: Tatyana Zasypkina